Earthquake

I will try to post a more detailed update about life here soon, but for now, I wanted you all to know that I was not in the area that was most severely affected by the May 12 earthquake in China. I am safe and sound, and there is no damage where I am. The people I know in the affected area are mostly just very shaken up, and some have minor damage in their apartments. No one I know was injured in the earthquake.

Please pray for the many people who remained trapped under buildings in remote areas, the thousands who are seriously injured, and the families who have lost loved ones (especially including the parents of many school aged children who died when their schools collapsed). Pray that the Lord will use this terrible tragedy to call many people to come to know Him as their personal Lord and Savior. And finally, praise the Lord for the Chinese government's swift and open response to this crisis. In sharp contrast to the government response to the recent cyclone disaster in Burma, the Chinese government's rapid response and openess to outside help in this situation will undoubtedly save lives.

Thanks again SO MUCH for praying. More updates soon.

Brian

P.S. You can follow constantly updated reports on the China earthquake by checking out the following sites (these are the ones I use, in this order):

BBC Asia Pacific

CNN

MSNBC

Jesse and Michael in East Asia

One of the most fun things that has happened around here lately was a visit from my best friends from Rocky Mount. Jesse and Michael came over on a vision trip a couple of weeks ago, and it was amazing to finally get to hang out with them on this side of the world. They were part of a large group that came over from the US to visit and encourage us, and I for one was really encouraged by them. Not only was it fun to hang out with these guys, but it was also fun to see them jump into the culture, try new things, and really embrace the people we work with. I’ll post some pictures below, and you can also check out some of their pictures by clicking here.


The group together after a debriefing time


The three of us on a big wall


Jesse masters the art of using chopsticks
(his other  goal was to become fluent in the language during the week)


Michael takes a minute to take a picture while leading games at a school for underprivileged kids


Hanging out with Wendy after a long day


The guys on campus after eating "hot pot" with one of our national friends


The three of us in my city

I'M ENGAGED!

I introduced you to Wendy in my last blog update, and I'm happy to report that we got engaged while we were in Thailand!  We are both really excited about our future together, and SO GRATEFUL for those of you who have been sending encouraging emails and praying for us.  Many of you have asked for more details, so I'm posting the story of how I asked Wendy to marry me below.

...The Story ...
(more pictures below)

Originally, I was not planning to ask Wendy to marry me in Thailand. A lot of people I know have gotten engaged there, and it seemed pretty expected to me. I like surprises. And I really like to give Wendy surprises. I was pretty settled on that until my little sister (who has been married almost five years) pointed out that in twenty years, I wouldn't remember that a lot of my friends got engaged in Thailand. I'd just remember that we got engaged in a really beautiful tropical paradise. I've always hated it when Liz is right.

My mom has been a big fan of me and Wendy getting together for a long time now. Sometimes I have not immediately shared information with her about our relationship because I knew how excited she would get, and I did not want to unnecessarily give her a heart attack. I would have liked for our engagement to be a surprise to her (only because I already knew that she would be thrilled). But mom also has a part-time job at a jewerly store, and was going to need some help buying some jewerly. I thought about this for a couple of days after I talked to my sister about Thailand and then decided I had to talk to her. She was ecstatic of course, and a big help in getting Wendy a great ring along with her manager Tamara Newman and Sharon Dees.

Our friend Joo was coming to Thailand to vacation with his girlfriend Ashley, and he was about the only way that the ring was going to get from North Carolina to Thailand. I am very grateful to him for being the "diamond carrier" as he was later called.

Before we started vacation, I had already decided that I wanted to propose at night on the beach. I had a rough idea about what that might look like, but I had never actually been to the beach where we were going (Ao Nang Beach, Krabi Province). I bought A LOT of candles at a department store in Chiang Mai because I wasn't sure what would be available at the beach.

The morning of our first full day there, Graham and I decided to try to go scope out possible locations. We met "to go running" at 6:45AM. After a couple of ideas didn't work out, we found this little pennisula at the end of the beach where we were staying. We decided that it was the best place in the area. Then we worked out a plan for Graham and his wife Ashlei to go ahead of us that night and set everything up.

That night, we all went out to dinner to celebrate Dennis Baker's birthday. To stall for time while Graham and Ashlei were setting things up, Wendy and I took our laundry to a little shop. Then I asked her to take a walk on the beach with me. Graham called twice while we were walking (I didn't answer, but that was our signal that he needed more time for setup). It took about 25 minutes to get to the end of the beach from our hotel. When we got there, everything was dark except for the candles. I told Wendy I had gotten a Graham to help out with a little date for us. Along with the candles, there was a blanket, desserts, drinks and my iPod (w/portable speakers). One of our favorite musicians is Chris Botti (sax) and I played that while we had dessert.

It was a really clear night, and when we finished eating, we just talked and looked at the stars for a while. Then I told her that I had a little present for her. I pulled out a (wrapped) wooden box with the Chinese character for love carved on the top. She was pretty happy when she unwrapped it because she had been wanting a box made out of that kind of wood (here it is just called "ancient wood" but it is a certain kind of wood that is found in river beds in Sichuan province, and is petrified). She just held it for a minute, and then I told her there was something else in the box. When she opened it, I took the ring box and opened it, and told her that I loved her and asked her to marry me. And she said YES!

After that, we sat and talked more and listened to more music (Michael Buble I think?) and then we walked back to the hotel. We talked to Graham and Ashlei who had been waiting up for us and then our immediate families and I finally got to sleep around 2AM (LONNNNG DAY!).

We just got home from vacation a couple of days ago, and we had decided to not start any serious wedding planning before we got home. Being engaged has been really fun for us, and now starting to think about wedding and future plans is exciting too.

Again, we are so thankful for friends who have encouraged us and prayed for us, and we greatly appreciate (and NEED) your continued prayers as we look to Him to guide our future together.




This is the beach where we got engaged
(picture taken at sunrise)


This is the beach in front of our hotel at sunset


THE RING!